But when you’ve found one you can wear indefinitely, it’ll be worth it.Īlso, remember that consent is key and there are several health issues to be aware of – if it needs to come off, it needs to come off. Be prepared for some trial and error, as well as a bit of moisturiser to help the skin. Plastic ones tend to chafe, and the heavy metallic ones can be a bit too weighty. You can always get advice from various forum boards and social media groups too. My advice is to check reviews on the sites that sell them and see how long someone has managed to keep it on for. These are the books people wish they could read for the first time again